Sunday, October 7, 2007

Q&A...

Q: how's the wedding preparations?
A: like that loh... nothing much to do now mah... photos taken le... now confirming guests list and invitation cards printing...

Q: how's the house?
A: still NOT done... :(

Q: bill so much ah?
A: ya cos of the renovation and we juz engaged a videographer...
Q: still got videography ah... no wonder spending so much...
* reading in between the lines, implying wife wanted it...*

Q: who is paying?
A: we split half-half...
Q: by right guy should pay more leh...
A: we both working and earning same mah...
Q: but marry over le is follow guy's surname leh.. n somemore next time the kids oso follow guy's surname... how to half-half?
A: ok loh so to be 'fair', marry over still use own surname.. and next time kids must at least 2 so 1 will follow dad's surname and the other follow mum's surname loh... as if... duh...
Q: ya this cannot be done right? so the guy should pay more...
A: no lah we still spilt half-half...

Q: how's the expenses?
A: we split half-half... but by right guy should pay more?
Q: u both working and earning same so split half-half is reasonable... if guy should pay more, then the gal should pay more for the bridal package since most of the items pertains to the gal...



married couples please comment...

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Can singles reply?

As to how much to pay, it all depends on each couple.. As long as the 2 of u are comfortable with the arrangement, y bother how others think?

LIke u said, since both are working, shd just pay half half.. Unless the guy is super super rich la..

2daysago

kOi said...

hahaa......i agree with anonymous. This payment stuff is very personal. I know most couples spilt the bill half half, its very common.Anyway its between the 2 of u, so dun have to bother abt what others think.

1~xyn said...

i also agree wif the others. it's a personal agreement betw the 2 of u. y bother wat other pple r saying? they r not the ones getting married... as long as the 2 of u r happy wif watever arrangements, y b bothered by others' opinions?